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15th Annual Jim Dent Dinner
Tuesday Oct 14, 2008, 6:00 - 9:00 pm

Celebrating Health and Humor
a benefit of KPCC

This year featuring entertainer Jeff Allen


KPCC's main fund raising event is the Jim Dent Dinner.

Proceeds from the Dent Dinner fund our client subsidy program.

KPCC serves over 1000 clients a year.
More than half of our clients have no health insurance.
We offer more than $200,000 in fee subsidies each year.

 

This Year's Entertainer:

Jeff Allen

Jeff Allen is the best at what he does–making people laugh as hard as humanly possible. His Happy Wife, Happy Life message of a marriage gone wrong and redeemed has given laughter and encouragement to millions of people. Jeff’s comedy drives home the humor in everyday family life and the joy derived from a healthy marriage.

Monthly columnist for Living with Teenagers Magazine
Two-time featured performer at the National Prayer Breakfast


 

http://www.jeffallencomedy.com/

 

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Signature Sponsor - $5,000
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Patron Sponsor - $750
Friend Sponsor - $400

Please contact us if you are interested in becoming a sponsor, 346-0689


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Dent Dinner Entertainers

1993 David Warner
1994 David Warner
1995 Susan Vass
1996 Susan Vass
1997 Craig  Davis
1998 Michael Amar
1999 David Warner
2001 Doc Hollywood
2002 Michael Amar
2003 Ralph Hood
2004 Taylor Mason
2005 Bob Noon
2006 Susan Vass
2007 Taylor Mason

 

 

Dent Dinner sponsors
have included:

Kathleen DuBois (Progressity),
David Hardesty (WVU),
and Beth Walker (Bowles Rice)

 

 

 

 

 


http://www.pastoralcareweek.org/

Stories, Poems, Reflections and Resources
related to the theme of
Health and Humor
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“ The intimate relation between humor and faith is derived from the fact that both deal with the incongruities of our existence.  Humour is concerned with the immediate incongruities of life and faith with the ultimate ones. Both humour and faith are expressions of the freedom of the human spirit, of its capacity to stand outside of life, and itself, and view the whole scene.” R. Niebuhr in “Humour and Faith,” Discerning the Signs of the Times: Sermons for Today and Tomorrow (1949) p.112

“Humour is, in fact, a prelude to faith; and laughter is the beginning of prayer…Laughter is swallowed up in prayer and humour is fulfilled by faith” R. Niebuhr in “Humour and Faith,” Discerning the Signs of the Times: Sermons for Today and Tomorrow (1949) pp.111-122

“Above all things, and at all times, practice yourself in good humor”. (Thomas Jefferson)

“A kind heart is a fountain of gladness, making everything in its vicinity freshen into smiles.” (Washington Irving)

 “Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” (anonymous)

“We can never really love anybody with whom we never laugh.” (Agnes Repplier)

“Humor is the instinct for taking pain playfully.” (Max Eastman)

“You grow up the first day you have your first real laugh at yourself.” (Ethel Barrymore)

“Laughter is inner jogging.” (Norman Cousins)

“What was significant about laughter…was not just the fact that it provides internal exercise for a person… a form of jogging for the innards, but that it creates a mood in which the other positive emotions can be put to work, too.”  (Norman Cousins)

“Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.”  (Victor Hugo)

“Laughter is a tranquilizer with no side effects.” (Arnold Glasgow)

“He who laughs, lasts” (Mary Pettibone Poole)

“..a sense of humor is the only divine quality of man.” (C.G. Jung)

“There is, in fact, no real spirituality without the laughter which the sense of humor brings. It is not to be confused with frivolity and it cannot exist in anyone who is not a serious person able to explore the darkness and suffering in life.” ( Helen M Luke in “The Laughter at the Heart of Things”, Parabola, vol. Xll, No. 4, pp. 11-12

“So I will suggest that humor implies the ability to establish a certain remoteness, a certain distance towards oneself and the world. That distance enables one to appear not to be taking quite seriously that which one’s inner self takes, cannot but take, terribly serious, yet without betraying the secret….if the necessary distance is maintained, all the tension in features and gestures, the defensive and aggressive attitudes, may give way to a smile.” ( Henry Corbin in “The Safeguard of the Mystic”, Parabola, vol. Xll, no. 4, p. 30)

“We grow from our laughter as much as we grow from our seriousness – and the child, discovering the magic of humor, finds a new plateau from which to view its experience differently.”  (Richard Lewis in “Infant Joy”, Parabola, Vol. Xll, No. 4, p. 47)

“I’ve yet to hear of anyone doing a humor meditation, but humor and meditation accomplish some of the same aims. Both help to let everything float away – they show you that you’re not the center of the universe.” (Moshe Waldok in “Meditations on a Joyful Year”, Parabola, Vol. XLL, No. 4. p. 67)

“ If you wish to glance inside a human soul and get to know a man…just watch him laugh.  If he laughs well he is a good man.” (Fyodor Dostoyevsky)

“I pity people who can’t find laughter or at least some bit of amusement in the little doings of the day. I believe I could find something ridiculous even in the saddest moment, if necessary. It has nothing to do with being superficial. It’s a matter of joy in life.” – (Sophie Scholl)

“Nobody needs a smile so much as the one who has none to give. So get used to smiling heart-warming smiles and you will spread sunshine in a sometimes dreary world.” (Lawrence G. Lovasik, Slovak Priest, b. 1913)

“Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful.” (Thich Nhat Hanh)

“What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity.  These are but trifles, to be sure; but scattered along life’s pathway, the good they do is inconceivable.” (Joseph Addison, English Essayist, Poet, Dramatist and Statesman, 1672-1719)

“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.” (Thich Nhat Hanh)

“Joy is not in things; it is in us”  (Richard Wagner, German dramatic composer and theorist, 1813-1833)

“Let a joy keep you. Reach out your hands and take it when it runs by.” (Carl Sandburg)

“Humor is mankind’s greatest blessing.”  (Mark Twain)

“Good humor is one of the preservatives of our peace and tranquility.” (Thomas Jefferson)

“Nothing in man is more serious than his sense of humor; it is the sign that he wants all the truth.” (Mark Van Doren, American Writer and Educator, 1894-1972

 

Meister Eckhart

Do you want to know
what goes on in the core of the Trinity?
I will tell you.
In the core of the Trinity
the Father laughs
and gives birth to the Son.
The Son laughs back at the Father
and gives birth to the Spirit.
The whole Trinity laughs
and gives birth to us.
(as quoted in Meditations with Meister Eckhart
by Matthew Fox, Santa Fe, New Mexico: Bear and Co.)
 

Meister Eckhart

“When God laughs at the soul and the soul laughs back at God, the persons of the Trinity are begotten. When the Father laughs at the Son and the Son laughs back at the Father, that laughter gives pleasure, that pleasure gives joy, that joy gives love, and that love is the Holy Spirit.”     (as quoted by Tony Hendra in Father Joe)
 

God’s Laughter

Hafiz tells us that the Beloved’s nature is pure Joy. The Closer we come to Him, the more we are able to hear and feel God’s Laughter.  The rhythm of His Laughter is the music of
the dance of life. That music is the essence of Love, and it is the radiant core of every song of Hafiz.
(From I Heard God Laughing, Renderings of Hafiz,, copyright l996 Daniel Ladinsky and used by his permission)


Tripping over Joy


What is the difference
Between your experience of Existence
And that of a saint?
The saint knows
That the spiritual path
Is a sublime chess game with God
And that the Beloved
Has just made such a Fantastic Move
That the saint is now continually
Tripping over Joy
And bursting out in Laughter
And saying, “I Surrender!”
Whereas, my dear,
I am afraid you still think
You have a thousand serious moves.
(From I Heard God Laughing, Renderings of Hafiz,,
copyright l996 Daniel Ladinsky and used by his permission)

 

Laughter

What is laughter? What is laughter?
It is God waking up! O it is God waking up!
It is the sun poking its sweet head out
From behind a cloud
You have been carrying too long,
Veiling your eyes and heart
It is Light breaking ground for a great Structure
That is your Real body – called Truth
It is happiness applauding itself and then taking flight
To embrace everyone and everything in this world.
Laugher is the polestar
Held in the sky by our Beloved,
Who eternally says,
“Yes, dear ones, come this way,
Come this way toward Me and Love!
Come with your tender mouths moving
And your beautiful tongues conducting songs
And with your movements – your magic movements
Of hands and feet and glands and cells – Dancing!
Know that to God’s Eye,
All movement is a Wondrous Language,
And Music – such exquisite, wild Music!”
O what is laughter, Hafiz?
What is this precious love and laughter
Budding in our hearts?
It is the glorious sound
Of a soul waking up!
(From I Heard God Laughing, Renderings of Hafiz,,
copyright l996 Daniel Ladinsky and used by his permission)

 

Comedy as a Healer

In March of 2004, at Emory University, the Jerry Lewis Healing Theatre was dedicated.  The new theatre is meant to improve the waiting room experience for ailing people. It was the brainchild of Lewis and Dr. Scott Boden, who share a belief in the power of laughter to heal. Lewis would like to see the theatre become a launching pad for a more fully realized teaching facility that could examine and instruct others in the healing powers of comedy. ( Reported in The Atlanta Journal Constitution, March 18, 2004)
 

St. Philip Neri

St. Philip was known for his sense of humor. He radiated a spirit of joy. Widely revered as a saint in his lifetime he had his own way of coping with it. He liked to dress in comical outfits, assume outlandish disguises, go about with only one side of his face shaved, or indulge in elaborate practical jokes. This reflected his genuine playfulness and the joy he found in the spiritual life. He said, “Cheerfulness strengthens the heart and makes us persevere in a good life.  Therefor the servant of God ought always to be in good spirits.”
 

The King’s Jester

It was one of the redeeming features of ancient and medieval monarchies to have recognized that every king needs a court jester, a part of whose function it is not only to make the king laugh but to make him laugh at himself… There is also the need of the king for a comic alter ago, another less serious and more human self to step into. For it is in the person of the joker that the king jokes; in the person of the fool he becomes a fool. This not only reveals what he is, and prevents him from pretending to be what he is not, but allows him to be what he really is: a man like everyone else who participate with all his subjects in the frailties and follies of the human condition… Through the court fool the king preserves both his sanity and his humanity. (M. Conrad Hyers)

 

Cy Eberhart and Humour

Cy Eberhart is a retired hospital chaplain who has maintained an active interest in humor and play for 35 years. His 1985 book on humor and spirituality, In the Presence of Humor: A Guide to the Humorous Life was endorsed by the late Norman Cousins, and has recently be republished. A description is on his web page www.cyeberhart.com. Also, a series of his articles on humor and play has recently been posted on  http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Cy_Eberhart 

The Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor
will be having its annual conference next year from February 15 to 18, 2007.
The conference will celebrate AATH's 20th year.
The conference theme is: "Makin' Waves" Integrating Compassionate Humor into Caring Communities.
It will be held at The Bay Point Marriott Resort 4200 Marriott Drive, Panama City Beach, FL 32408
Continuing education credits will be available to various disciplines.
The complete conference rundown can be found at www.aath.org or by calling
609/392-0200
 

Workshop Resource

Alex Chamberlain, a board certified chaplain with the APC, has presented training events at The APC Annual Conference, the CAPPE annual conference, and numerous hospitals, hospices, and other health care facilities around the nation. Ranging from 90 minute to half day events, Alex not only presents the theory behind the therapeutic use of humor, he provides numerous examples of how humor can be used sensitively and creatively in the practice of health care. He is always ready to adapt the content for attendees and has presented before chaplains, parish ministers, nurses, physicians, and other health care professionals. A member of the Association of Applied and Therapeutic Humor, Alex has presented a workshop for that organization regarding spirituality and humor, and has clowned with Patch Adams M.D. in patient rounds at a hospital where Alex served as chaplain.

He is glad to come to a facility that would like to have an informative and relaxed training event that will equip chaplains, local clergy, and/or healthcare professionals to offer humor that promotes well being, avoids inappropriate use of humor, and brings job satisfaction to those who use this tool. Available for a limited number of dates this fall, his presence and workshops would be a wonderful way to complement other ways in which pastoral care week’s theme of "Healing Humor" is being celebrated this fall.

More information on Alex can be found on his website www.beyondthecliche.com. He can be reached at 208-921-0563 or by email alexcham@beyondthecliché.com

 

 

 

Links, Books, Magazines

Humor and Health by Paul E. McGhee, Ph.D

http://www.holistic-online.com/Humor_Therapy/humor_mcghee_article.htm

Carolina Health and Humor Association (Carolina Ha Ha) www.cahaha.com

www.thehumorcollection.org

www.comedycures.org

www.LaughterRemedy.com

Therapeutic Benefits of Laughter
http://www.holistic-online.com/Humor_Therapy/humor_therapy_benefits.htm

Humor and Spirituality
http://www.spiritslaughing.com/humortrend.htm

Using Humor to Cope: Laughing in the Midst of Stress by Paul McGhee, Ph.D
http://www.laughterremedy.com/humor2.dir/humor.html

Articles on Health and Humor from point of view of Nursing
www.jesthealth.com/articles.html

Humor Matters, Bibliography and References
http://www.humormatters.com/bibindex.htm

Humor Therapy
http://www.wholehealthmd.com/print/view/1,1560,SU_10152,00.html

Roman Catholic Nun conducts humor workshops as her ministry.
http://www.acfnewsource.org/democracy/laughing_nun.html

Books Offering Humor and Theology
http://eny.dioceseny.org/0504/Humor3.html

Greg Tamblyn, singer and songwriter offers musical keynotes for groups that want to laugh, lighten up, look at life differently and live more effectively, He primarily focuses on serving, helping and caregiving professions
http://www.gregtamblyn.com/musicalprograms.html

Images of the Laughing Jesus
http://images.google.com/images?q=The+Laughing+Jesus+images&hl=en&hs=B0D&lr=&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official_s&sa=N&tab=ii&oi=imagest

http://www.rockhousearts.com/rha_bible/index.html

The Humor Project
http://www.humorproject.com

Allen Klein--The Jollytologist
http://www.allenklein.com

Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor
http://www.aath.org

Beliefnet: Laugh Three Times and Call Me in the Morning
http://www.beliefnet.com/healthandhealing/getcontent.aspx?cid=14220&WT.mc_id=NL44

Zen Paths to Laughter. Boston:  Journey Editions, www.tuttlepublishing.com

“The Sense of Humor”, Parabola, the Magazine of Myth and Tradition. Vol. X11, No. 4, November l987.

“Humor and Healing, Does it really help?”  Cure, Vol. 2, No. 4, Winter, 2003

Cousins, Norman. The Anatomy of an Illness:As Perceived by the Patient, W.W. Norton & Co., 1979

Klein, Allen. 
The Healing Power of Humor and
The Courage to Laugh:  Humor, Hope, Healing in the Face of Death and Dying

McGhee, Paul E. Ph.D.  Health, Healing and the Amuse System:  Humor as Survival Training

Siegel, Bernie.  Humor and Healing (audio cassette)

Goodheart, Annette Ph.D. Laughter Therapy

DiGiacomo, Fran. I’d Rather Do Chemo Than Clean Out the Garage: Choosing Laugher Over Tears.

Hyers, Conrad. And God Created Laughter:  The Bible As Divine Comedy

Palmer, Earl.  The Humor of Jesus:  Sources of Laughter in the Bible

MacKinlay, Rev. Elizabeth. Spirituality of Later Life:  On Humor and Despair.

Moody, Raymond A. Jr.  Laugh After Laugh: the Healing Power of Humor, 1978

Peter, Laurence J. and Bill Dana.  The Laughter Prescription, 1982

Trueblood, Elton.  The Humor of Christ

Robinson, Vera. Humor and the Health Professional

Webb, Joseph. Comedy and Preaching, Chalice Press 1988

 

 

 

Past Dent Performers

 

 

2006

This year's Dent Dinner will be Tuesday Oct 17, 2006, 6:00 - 9:00 pm
at the Charleston Marriott, and will feature the return of comedian Susan Vass. This is Susan's third time speaking at the event. Vass wrote the book "Laughing Your Way to Good Health!" 

Vass writes: "Ice cream is my great downfall on any kind of weight loss program. Have you ever taken one of those long handled ice tea spoons and gone mining for the fudge in the Fudge Ripple? I like to eat all the fudge in a kind of surgical strike, squish the remaining ice cream down, and then tell the family it was Vanilla."

Susan Vass has been a professional comedian for a quarter of a century, logging some 2500 shows from coast to coast. She has opened for such national acts as Robert Goulet, The Smothers Brothers, Jay Leno, and Joan Rivers. She has appeared several times on the National Public Radio hit "A Prairie Home Companion" with fellow Minnesotan Garrison Keillor, as well as on Rosie O'Donnell's show "Standup Spotlight". She has twice entertained at The Greenbrier in White Sulphur Springs. She makes her home in Maplewood, Minnesota, which is a quick 20-minute drive to the Mall of America, the largest mall in the United States. This is Susan's 3rd appearance at the Jim Dent Dinner.



"Our whole house is a salute to electricity. My motto is 'It's better to leave all the lights on than to curse the darkness.'" each light is a tiny eternal flame to all the money we could have saved. In Minnesota the power company gets a rate hike approximately every twenty minutes. Then they use this money to put out helpful brochures with great ideas for cutting down your electric bill."


This promises to a be a very funny evening!
 

 

 

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